I doubt we have any expert here ... mostly hobbyist. Good on you, learning from YT and web and lots of experimentation; same experience on my side. I'm not so much into HT, I'm much more into stereo HiFi.
For HT, I've played with the auto-cal YPAO ... results were so so only. I learned the hard way how to manually tuning my AVR (with REW as the measurement tool), and I get far far better results. Thankfully my Yamaha AVR has a webpage to manually input the calibration/PEQ settings. My AVR calibration is pretty much locked-in, I haven't mod the calibration for a few years already.
Recent years, I spent a lot more time on Stereo room correction. It was very tough the first few years, trying to understand the so many aspects of measurements (FR, Phase, Step, Impulse, Decay, RT60, Distortion, Time Alignment, etc...). Following that, another year of struggling to learn how to design my own FIR filters. The struggles over those years were totally worth it ... after crossing the chasm ... it was really really satisfying to be able to tune my system to tackle the room issues, and for the system to be the best it can be. I have posted my journey freely in this forum (feel free to search my past post). Very few respondents because very very few go down this audiophile path. For me, the reward is totally worth the steep learning curve.
With my stereo system pretty much dialed-in, I switched my attention to eye-candy. With AI at our doorstep, I started writing my own visualizers (goniometer, loudness radar). Following that, designing my own HiFi GUI. Running the Streamer GUI on a 27" display beats all those 2"-4" streamer displays

The goniometer was the best tool I created for myself ... it help me confirm the stereo imaging/soundstage/phasing that I am hearing with what the goniometer is showing.
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